The Norms

I remember many times in SG, when Hubby wanna hug me or kiss me in the MRT or some public places, I will always jokingly tell him "Don't want lah later tio STOMP how". 

It is like becoming part of our daily life that we're so aware of our actions in public, lots of secret cameras around ready 24/7 to capture all the "odd moments" to be put up for judging, gossiping, and sometimes to make a big fuss about.

So in a way also kind of tell everyone that we have a behavior range that says "behave the same as majority" else you may be the next victim.. 

Sometimes people just take nonsense video and upload it to SHAME someone because they think is funny.. (Which sometimes is not...)

Sometimes people think that they should record the person face to "Punish" their wrong doing.. (or threaten them that their face will be seen worldwide...)

But to me this is not Punishment but more of Humiliating, and being revengeful.. 

We're like feeding the negative with more negativity.. its never ending. 

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When can we start to show more love to each other and be more positive?