2012 mark one of my Best year so far.. It have been a good year for me, accomplished so many things, travel quite a bit this year too. :)
Good year doesn't mean no trouble, but it means that we have overcome all the obstacles and feel satisfied and happy of the choice we made that lead us to our happiness right now..
I'm happy almost everyday, stop listening to emo songs, stop watching sad korean dramas which I will camp whole night just to chiong finish the whole show lol.
Didn't understand why I love emo songs and sad dramas so much in the past, now I will say "eh this song no nice leh sound so sad one.." or "this show very disturbing leh keep cry cry cry.."
In the past I will listen and get my mood very low, watch the sad drama and cry cry cry myself.. lol.
I use to enjoy sad endings.. but now I try not to watch them if I know the ending are sad, or I watch it with lighter heart knowing it was a "fake" lol.
I still remember in the past after watching the whole sad drama (with sad endings of cos), a lot of time I couldn't get myself out of the show and remain at a very sad and low mood state for quite long, I realize I totally get myself into the situation in the drama.. which kinda =.=".
Now I'm much positive and will enjoy positivism more than negativity. I like to keep my mood happy and high, so that me and Hubby can have great time together most of the time.. :)
Time flies! Last year during this period we are still enjoying our holiday in BKK then spend Christmas together in SG, plan and save up, looking forward to our Wedding in April.. and now, we're already married for 8 months, and it still feels like we just got married last week. :)
Looking at so many good things that happen in our 2012, I a bit 舍不得..
But I believe all the good/some bad things happen in 2012 is just a beginning, learning experience for us to carry on to be better. 2013 will be a good year for us too and many years down the road will only be better and better, if we stick together and don't give up on each other..
Even till now, the things we learnt in marriage course we attend before our Wedding still keep flashing in my mind at times.. all the dos and dont's lol.
And all the things you do for me, also keep reassuring me that my choice is correct.
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My 2013 new year resolution very simple only..
- BE HAPPY and CONTENT.
Being happy is a choice! Everyday also need to live, why not choose to live happy? If you're happy, your loved ones will also be influence by you and be happy. Being happy means you're positive..with positive energy flowing in your body negativity will not be able to form any cancer cells in your body.. You will then be a strong and healthy person, then with strong and healthy body you can work and perform well at work/studies or whatever you dream of doing.. When you perform well (in whatever you do), you get praises and compliments, rewarded in one way or another for your effort (big or small) which will then brings you more motivation and happiness to continue work hard and perform. Being content in whatever you have, not comparing with others is also another form of Happiness.
At the end of the day, Must be Happy!
Happy - Healthy - Perform - Reward - Motivation - Happy - Healthy - Perform - Reward - Motivation - Happy...
Can't you see? Its a cycle and everything will start from being Happy and end being Happy!
To maximum the result of this cycle, you need to have contentment.
STOP COMPARING!
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